For Widows Only Forum

I am forced to lie about my one daughter when people asked me, I recently got on facebook and someone asked if they knew her,
and I am forced to lie about the situation , I dont mind posting here, and getting it out, but I do feel forced to lie
one lady at the post office has a grandchild with my granddaughters same name and I have to be polite and lie
and dont tell them the truth but any more I am tired of it,
why do I have to lie and not tell the truth, and how do I tell it
my daughter pretended to love her mother but when her dad died,
she decided she loved her spouse not differntly but more, and is induced by his insecurity and even my other daughter and her spouse says he is crazy mom, and they have dealt with him too,
so how do I tell the truth of how and what is going on,
and I did nothing but loose my spouse...